You may find yourself in a position where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is not interested", which is a difficult situation but unfortunately not an uncommon one. First of all, you cannot know for sure if your ex is or is not in love with you until you ask her.
Your ex may even have said she doesn't love you anymore, and while this is possible, it is also possible that she's simply saying that. She may still be harboring feelings for you.
Many couples who still hold a candle for each other will have break ups despite their strong feelings.
So you might say "I'm still in love, my ex is not." But you cannot really know this for sure.
If you can truly say, I'm still in love my ex, then there is a good chance that your ex may still also love you as well. This may not mean that getting back together quickly is a good idea, but the fact that you have feelings for one another is a good thing, and it means that eventually the relationship may be capable of being rekindled.
The first thing you need to think about is that you did in fact break up for some reason. Even if you had no interest in breaking up, if your ex wanted it, then something was wrong with the relationship.
This needs to be dealt with and fixed in order for the relationship to stand a chance. This is not always easy but it is unfortunately quite necessary if you want your relationship to stand a chance.
So even at the point where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is too", that does not mean that it is exactly the right time to rekindle things, because you need to do some figuring out first. Even if the mutual split was a mistake, you can't just automatically make things work.
You may find yourself saying "I'm still in love my ex wants to get back together too,", but that really does not mean it's time to just jump right back into things. You need to get to the bottom of why the break up occurred so that you can prevent those things from happening when the relationship is eventually rekindled.
The more you work on trying to understand what happened and why, the better off you will be when you attempt to make the relationship work again in the future. It really is this simple. It is important for you to understand this concept if you want the relationship to work as soon as you rekindle it.
Don't mess things up worse by refusing to address what happened to cause the breakup in the first place. If you do not address past problems, then your relationship will be doomed to repeat them.
Your ex may even have said she doesn't love you anymore, and while this is possible, it is also possible that she's simply saying that. She may still be harboring feelings for you.
Many couples who still hold a candle for each other will have break ups despite their strong feelings.
So you might say "I'm still in love, my ex is not." But you cannot really know this for sure.
If you can truly say, I'm still in love my ex, then there is a good chance that your ex may still also love you as well. This may not mean that getting back together quickly is a good idea, but the fact that you have feelings for one another is a good thing, and it means that eventually the relationship may be capable of being rekindled.
The first thing you need to think about is that you did in fact break up for some reason. Even if you had no interest in breaking up, if your ex wanted it, then something was wrong with the relationship.
This needs to be dealt with and fixed in order for the relationship to stand a chance. This is not always easy but it is unfortunately quite necessary if you want your relationship to stand a chance.
So even at the point where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is too", that does not mean that it is exactly the right time to rekindle things, because you need to do some figuring out first. Even if the mutual split was a mistake, you can't just automatically make things work.
You may find yourself saying "I'm still in love my ex wants to get back together too,", but that really does not mean it's time to just jump right back into things. You need to get to the bottom of why the break up occurred so that you can prevent those things from happening when the relationship is eventually rekindled.
The more you work on trying to understand what happened and why, the better off you will be when you attempt to make the relationship work again in the future. It really is this simple. It is important for you to understand this concept if you want the relationship to work as soon as you rekindle it.
Don't mess things up worse by refusing to address what happened to cause the breakup in the first place. If you do not address past problems, then your relationship will be doomed to repeat them.
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